MATURE DATING OVER 40 - UK
1) Kick off your interaction with energy!
Greet people in a cheerful, spirited, but above all, energetic way.
The very first impression is key, and it's a lot more difficult to kick
off your interaction in a low-energy way and build up than it is to
begin full of energy and let things settle down.The more energy you have at the start, the more ready she'll be to let herself to be carried away by your energy. Yes, you can have too much energy, and come across like a nut. Do not do that. Adjust your energy level suitable to the situation. You need to be just a little bit more energetic than she is, though not too much more. Entering a relaxed dinner discussion like you're on the dance floor at a nightclub is not going to work.
2) Make good eye contact.
Few things communicate your confidence better than making direct eye contact. Always look her in the eyes, and hold eye contact longer than what is generally considered comfortable in typical situations.
A solid gaze is commonly quite seductive, and helps create a strong connection between the 2 of you.
3) Use her name in your conversation.
When you repeat a woman's name while speaking to her does several things:
First, it shows the girl that you're actually making an effort to use her name and remember it.
In a subtle way, it helps create familiarity and comfort when you mention someone's name while talking to them. If you do this, she will feel comfortable and familiar with you instantly!
4) Ask questions, but do it correctly.
Girls love talking about themselves, and it's good to show some interest in her. However, do not overdo it since it's easy to come off as putting too much value on her. So don't make that error.
Be interested in her, and collect some details to identify common interests in between you two. Commonalities that you can utilize to develop additional connection.
For example, if she mentions having been to Hong Kong and you've been there as well, you can relate to that and begin discussing your own adventures there. This will help create a strong emotional connection.
5) Talk about your life experiences.
Just like with the Hong Kong example, sharing experiences you've experienced and adventures you have had helps form her thoughts of you and catches her imagination. By sharing specific stories, you can direct her opinion of you and have her believe exactly what you want her to believe about you.
6) Use flattery.
There is an old saying, "Flattery will get you everywhere!" And undoubtedly, women enjoy it when men say flattering things about them - as long as it's real and original.
You do not want to seem insincere or find yourself caught in a lie, or go around compromising your integrity by giving out compliments for things you do not truly find attractive. even more important, you don't want to be giving the same compliments everyone else does - then you just look like everyone else!
Simply put, if you can tell she gets compliments on her smile all the time, find something a bit more unique to compliment. Like possibly how her smile makes her eyes crinkle in a charming way.
The secret to flattery is to set yourself apart from every nerd complimenting her on the exact same smile.
7) Once in a while, whisper.
Do this in such a way that it fits the context, of course, but there are few things more sexy and flirtatious than whispering. Leaning in to someone and lowering your voice builds an aura of intimacy that can not be resisted. In fact, the closer you get when whispering, the greater the level of intimacy and the stronger the emotional connection.
8) Fill your voice with self-confidence.
The last thing you want to do while flirting is to come off as not sure, insecure, or scared. Be secure in yourself and your knowledge.
If she says something you disagree with, don't hesitate to set the record straight or get into a light argument if you need to. Provided you don't go overboard, women react well to self-confidence and male aggression.
9) Use nicknames.
When you give a name to something, you are symbolically conveying ownership over it. So when you give a nickname to a woman, you are concurrently establishing your dominance of the communication and building an image she needs to live up to.
For instance, if she is cute and shy, you can call her hello kitty. Tease her and make some jokes on it. Soon, she'll come to associate hello kitty with you and try to live up to the cute image solely for you.
10) Leave her wanting for more.
You don't want to exhaust everything in your flirting toolbox right away, so change between flirting and not flirting. Flirting continually comes off as too strong, and it might be hard for you to keep putting that much energy into your interaction. Switching keeps you from wearing out even as it keeps the interaction going.
Also, it permits you to extend the communication so when it's time to part ways, she'll still be interested in hearing more from you. A lot of guys will begin the flirting with high energy and let the energy drop so by the end, the woman has gotten her fill of you.
So always end your flirting on a high note that leaves her wanting more!
MATURE DATING OVER 40 - UK
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