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nothing wrong with being single, or having a non-traditional
relationship. No matter what your love life status, here are some love life tips you can use year-round to make the most of it.
1) Accept how your love life is right now. This isn’t easy, so you’ll
have to repeatedly remind yourself, especially when it seems like your
circumstances couldn’t get worse. Once you accept being single or your
relationship as it is, it will be easier to cherish the good things
about your situation, and sometimes that will encourage change for the
2) Accept that you don’t need someone else to make you happy. You are
all you need, believe it or not. Once you understand this, a
relationship becomes an added bonus rather than a narcotic drug you
can’t live without. Love addicts experience the crash and yearning for
more far more often than the high.
3) Learn to not care about what other people think about your love
life. It’s really none of their business. Do what makes you happy, even
if it’s not the norm. If you don’t, you’ll have regrets at the end of
4) Don’t fall for the “one and only soul mate” lie. Some love life
experts claim to have the key to finding “the one,” “your twin soul,”
and other fanciful love life goals. We’ve found through our years of
empirical research that everyone has many soul mates, and most of them
are not meant to result in a life-long, blissful relationship.
5) Don’t fall for the “together forever” fantasy. Sure, it’s
possible, and in rare cases couples do grow old together without great
suffering and sacrifices that make them die inside.
couples who commit at a very young age find that they’re not compatible
enough for a traditional relationship after five, ten, or twenty years.
Couples in prior generations had to remain together due to sociological
and economical reasons. Today, singles
and couples have more options, and that’s a good thing. The length of a
relationship isn’t important; what you learn and the love you give is.
6) Don’t beat yourself up if you don’t have an ideal relationship,
the type of love life that some celebrities seem to have as described in
the media. Like an airbrushed photo, what they present to the world and
the reality might be two different things. In fact, in some cases, you
might be shocked to know the truth about the relationship.
7) Consider karma and fate. Even if you use your free will to do all
you can to improve your love life, and you should, things won’t always
go as you hope due to the ever-present laws of karma and fate. This
doesn’t mean you’re being punished, but it might mean that you’re going
through a learning phase now for a more wonderful love experience later.
8) Lighten up and relax! It’s so easy to get caught up in your
routine and be stressed out from the responsibilities of life. But if
you don’t take “me time” to relax, rejuvenate, and become centered,
whether it’s through meditation or other ways, it’s more difficult to present your best, beautiful self to your partner or a new potential love interest.
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